Is ESP Hindering Your Communication?
Communication is key to every relationship and yet as important as it is, it’s also our biggest stumbling block.
As a person who believes herself to be a pretty good communicator… I’m constantly reminded that I’m not. Sorry to admit it, but my communication is just as flawed as the next gal.
There are countless times when what I’m saying in my head comes out painfully different from my mouth. And I too fall into the pattern of saying some of what I need, in hopes the message is clear and expansive… yeah, not so beneficial.
What I continue to find for myself, and the couples that I work with, direct (and kind) communication is always better than a partial message.
When it comes to love…
Don’t communicate halfway, say what needs to be said. ESP is not a thing in relationships.
You can have direct AND safe communication. You can process feelings AND stay grounded. You can work to get your point across AND be respectful. You can ask for clarification AND not get defensive.
You can do ALL these things when you communicate fully AND openly. Halfway or cryptic communication leaves you nothing but confused and frustrated.
Take the time this week to be clear and expansive in your communication. Your mate and your relationship will thank you for it.
Yours,
-A