We all know that sex is something you do, but less people realize that sex is something you should talk about.

I know this may sound crazy, but talking about sex is meeting a really healthy need within your relationship.

If sex is only something you do, and not something you talk about, then you’re missing a huge opportunity to get to know your partner more. 

A healthy and thriving physical relationship is so much more than just physical, and if you narrow it down to just the act of sex, you narrow the robust ways that talking about sex can build connection and intimacy.

Talking about sex together creates so many remarkable opportunities to explore and be curious.  

And the cool thing is, you can talk about sex in however and whatever way feels right for the two of you, as long as you’re starting the conversation.

Talk about what you like, talk about what you don’t like, talk about what you think about, talk about what you don’t think about. Just talk about it.

Use this week’s relationship tip as a push to dive into conversations about sex together.  Be kind to each other as you talk about it. Respect each other’s comfort levels. Move slow if you need to. Just start talkin’.

You got this,

-A