Let Some of it Go.

Can you imagine what your relationship would be like if you carried a bucket around and every time you felt frustrated, you dropped the reason into that bucket?

Every annoyance, every irk, every zing, every irritation… every single one… went right into that bucket.

How quickly would your bucket fill up?

Every week?
Every day?
Every hour?

I mean... can you imagine??

That would be just catastrophic in love! And yet you can unintentionally do it ALL THE TIME when you don’t let go of the little stuff.

The little stuff ISN’T that big of a deal. Sure it’s annoying but is it really that big of a deal? It’s likely not.

And the best gift you can give to your relationship is to…

Let go of the little things… not every frustration needs to turn into conflict.

If it’s truly a little thing, you have to let it go!! And if it’s a big thing being hidden in a little thing… then you have to get to the root of it AND address it.

But whatever you do… don’t spend your time filling up that bucket.

It will not serve the two of you… trust me!

And if you’re struggling with letting go of the little things OR can not for the life of you figure out how to address the big thing dressed up in little things clothing… reach out… that’s what I’m here for!

I’m cheering for you.

-A

P.S. Communication is key when it comes to letting go of the little things and working your way through the big things. Check out the Communication Masterclass as your tool to improve communication in love!