Overcoming Affairs, Infidelity and Betrayal
Trying to rebuild a relationship after it’s been burned to the ground by betrayal and infidelity is like sorting through the ashes of your most prized possessions trying to find one you can salvage. It’s overwhelming, scary and downright traumatic.
Healing from infidelity is not easy, and yet so many couples that work through the pain and hurt of betrayal describe knowing that the work has forever changed and healed them in ways they never could have imagined. Betrayal can and does take many forms and ALL of them need to be healed in order for the relationship to move forward.
Healing after betrayal is about learning to trust again when all that you thought you knew has been erased. It’s about accepting responsibility for the deep hurt that was caused. And it’s about discovering what made the relationship vulnerable to betrayal so those wounds can be healed and a new marriage can be rebuilt.
Affair Recovery
I support couples as they move away from the ashes of the past and heal into a new foundation for their marriage. Healing from betrayal and infidelity invites you to move into a new marriage together with the tools to rebuild it in a slow and steady manner. We will work through creating an understanding and healing of each partner's feelings around the affair, work to understand why the betrayal took place and create a safe connection again; one that is shared and nurtured regularly by both partners.
Learning to trust again is possible and Relationships can heal. I’m here to help support during this difficult yet relationship changing work.
As hard as it may seem to believe, most couples that do the work to heal from betrayal and infidelity say it has allowed them to create a new marriage that is stronger and built to go the distance. It’s essentially the best worst thing that’s ever happened to them, even if that feels impossible to believe right now.
Start the healing today
I’m here to help and don't want you or your relationship suffering any longer than necessary.
I offer all my services virtually throughout the state of California. I believe the more comfortable you are, in the setting we’re working in together, the more powerful the work will be.