Be committed to accountability.

I work in the change profession. Folks usually reach out when they’re feeling stuck or really want things to improve and be different. Which means that so many of my sessions are working with couples on how to achieve that change.  

And I’d say for the most part, we’re all pretty good visionaries when it comes to change. We know what we want it to look like. We have a pretty good picture of how it all can be. We’re even pretty good about knowing some of the steps that need to be taken to get there.   

But the biggest roadblock I see when it comes to change… especially in love, is the accountability factor. We tend to be much better at noticing others instead of ourselves. Which means, our ability to be accountable for our own behaviors or contributions to a dysfunctional dynamic ends up being a little spotty.

So, when it comes to change, you have to be committed to accountability. 

You have to become so observant of what you’re doing that is preventing change AND dedicated to shifting it. You have to be ultra-accountable for the decisions you’re making and the patterns you’re repeating, in order for change to happen.

If you want things to be different, you need to show up differently and be committed to your own accountability. That is really where change starts to take root.  

You got this!

-A

P.S. Need some more accountability in love? Enroll in the Communication Masterclass today for a roadmap with both structure and homework to help you create some real results… together.