Are You Guilty Of "Floating" Things? I Am Too....
Do you “float” things on your calendar? You know, that bad habit of dragging a task/meeting/activity from one day to another one just a little further down in the month, because you just don’t have the time to get to it quite yet?
I’ve realized that I do this more often than I’d like to admit. And the crazy thing is that sometimes at the end of the month (or two), I look at the item and end up deleting it because it no longer feels necessary.
Although this may be good for some tasks, it’s horrible if you do it in love.
If you continually “float” time together as couple until next week, and the week after that, pretty soon you’ll find yourselves so disconnected it begins to feel complicated to make your way back to each other.
The best time to spend together is NOW. The best time to create connection is NOW. The best time to slow down together is NOW.
And, it doesn’t have to be for hours and hours on end. It can certainly be as simple as slowing down for a moment to actually embrace, to look each other in the eyes when you speak, and to put down distractions and fully pay attention when sharing.
The time for connection is NOW and I challenge you to stop “floating” it and start doing it.
You got this,
-A